Days 137-151

Between June 1-June 14, I was home in Alameda. I had office work that I needed to handle personally. I wanted to meet with some clients (safely of course), and I had a house to clean.

It’s going to be a rough transition from living in Mexico for 6 months to moving home. I suspect Bonnie won’t be in the highest of spirits, so I took it upon myself to clean the house like I’ve never cleaned it before.

We have used a housekeeper in the past to help clean the floors and clean the kitchen and bathrooms. She does a mediocre job and shoves things places we only find later. It’s not really her fault, our only request was that she sweep and mop the floors. It takes her a couple hours to do this. What I did these two weeks wasn’t cleaning so much as it was purging.

We have lived in this house since late 2006. So for the past 14 years we have accumulated stuff and not thrown it away. We’ve also accumulated people, four to be exact. These new people in our house accumulate things as well, at an exponential rate. The items these new people bring into our home are quickly forgotten and if you stare your intention of donating these things or throwing them always, these people become enraged or deeply sad. This time it’s different though.

This time, I’m all alone, just a man with determination, a truck, and zero attachment to about 97% of the things in our house. Every nook and cranny in our house was cleaned out, organized and purged. I took 7 loads to the dumps. The cashier and I know each other pretty well now. I did keep a lot of items, don’t just think I indiscriminately tossed every thing out in the home.

The following is a list of places I cleaned out. Front table, mail, top of the front room cabinet, the coffee table book shelf, the middle room toys, the top of the piano, top of the children’s book cases. I threw every food item away in the pantry, freezer, and refrigerator. I purged the children’s room. Did 15 loads of laundry and folded and put them away. Organized the kids laundry and closet.

Our room was the toughest rooms. The bookshelf was collecting dust for a decade, our clothes were reorganized, our closet was cleaned out and organized. I cleaned off the dresser, and threw away the tv on top of our armoire. I dusted constantly, and vacuumed for a couple hours.

I also cleaned up the backyard a little and fixed our half shed because it was falling apart. I’ll post a before and after for that. I’m not posting before and after a of the inside of our home because it isn’t fair every see it before Bonnie does.

It’s not a great before and after but notice the light wood in the photo of the right at the bottom. I also reinforced the railing on our out door stairway. All the while I was also working at the office and cleaning that out a bit.

My father in law and uncle in law are all the while cleaning out their moms bed room. It’s the main bedroom. I would love to have that closet space, the closet in our room is very small and hangers don’t do too well in it. Hopefully we can one day move into that room one day so all of our clothes can be in the same place.

Our older kids are starting to get to the age where they will want to not be rooming with all of their siblings. Luckily there are three bed rooms. But I’m not breathing down my father and uncle in laws necks. They can take all the time they want to clean that room out.

As a finale, I also cleaned out our basement. Our basement has two sections, the first room, this room has a slab of concrete as a floor, the second room further into the basement is sectioned off by a screen door. This section has a dirt floor. I didn’t do much with the second room, but the first room is cleaned out.

I am now sitting in the SFO airport waiting to board a red eye to Houston, and then a flight to the city we are living in. I am exhausted, and after listing all of those things I did, you’re probably feeling exhausted as well. The reality is, my wife is probably ten times more tired, because for the past two weeks, she has been alone with four children ages 10, 8, 7, and 5. I guarantee she is far more tired than I can ever be, and I can’t wait to get back to them. I’ll update this blog post with my journey back to them. I should be back home in Mexico by around noon pacific time on June 14. Until then, be safe, and pray for our family. We have thirty days left of this six months abroad, and the kids are getting more excited every day, while my wife is getting sadder because this adventure is almost over.

*****************************************Flight into Houston went smooth. A baby screamed almost the entire three and a half hour flight. It didn’t bother me once. Poor parents though. Now I have to wait 4 hours before the next flight.

Flight into the city we are living in was quick. I slept for at least an hour in the airport waiting for the plane to board. As a true American, I ate two Cinnabon’s mid flight. I feel like I ate a few cups of concrete. 😀

I got through customs lightning quick and was greeted with a beautiful sight.**

Day 137

We had church in the morning and then drove to the city center afterwards. We wanted to show the kids the famous market. The kids have been cooped up and we have been trying to get them out more.


We walked around the market place and let the kids buy little knick knacks and small toys. After a while, we got really hungry and had the worst food in the entire country. For some reason the food gets exponentially terrible around very touristy places. It was so bland even I wanted some salsa.


We drove home to rest and then went back to the city center for a walking and singing tour of the city. The tour brought us to various businesses for us to patronize. I felt like we were back in the cab in Giza trying to get to the pyramids but the cab driver kept taking us to his friends shops to buy things.

The tour ended at the “Alley of the Kiss” and we went home after taking some photos. The basilica was lit up and this was the first time we were out at night so I took a ton of photos. Day 138 I fly home for work. Don’t expect the blog to be updated for the next thirteen days. I’m sure people don’t want to see posts about my working around the clock at my office.

Day 136

Today we went on an epic hike. We probably hiked 4-5 miles up a mountain. At the top of this mountain was yet another crucifix. The kids had a great attitude the entire time and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

The first part of the hike was a dirt road that we weren’t comfortable driving on. The road eventually ended in a makeshift parking lot that had a shrine. Caves were everywhere on this hike, I wanted to badly to go into them but the kids would have followed and there would be wild animals in them.


After the parking lot, it turned into a true trial. We hiked a mile further and got to what we thought was a dead end. I was happy to go back after this, but then we saw some people who lived in town hiking where there was no hiking trail right above us. They encouraged us to follow them up a very steep rock trail.


When we got to the top of this trail, they unloaded their equipment and started climbing a sheer wall. We again were very happy to be where we were, but our oldest son encouraged us to keep going in order to make it to the top of the mountain.



So we continued begrudgingly. We made it to the top of the mountain where we had lunch. It was very windy on top and as we were about to leave, it started raining.





It rained pretty hard on us until we made it down to the actual trail again. We then walked back to the car and drove home. Bonnie went to the grocery store while I let the kids watch a movie. When she got home, we went out to dinner.

The place we went to was a taqueria. The food was great and when we got home, we let the kids have ice cream before we showered them and put them to bed. It was a really nice day. **

Day 135

I spent all day in a mediation over Zoom. It lasted from 10am to 8pm our time. It was a case where I represented someone in the periphery but still had a say in what was going to happen in the case. Luckily one of my close friends was one of the other lawyers so that made the whole day tolerable.

Midway through the day, my daughter drew me a picture and slid it under the door. Our kids were amazing at school that day according to their mom.

Sadly when mediation ended, we had to put the kids to bed. I always look forward to Friday’s with them because we usually watch a movie, order out and eat popcorn.

Day 136 we will be hiking some more. There’s no reason we should be cooped up in our house when we can still be exploring this city. Have a great weekend.

Day 134

I spent part of the morning walking to the bank to get money out. On Thursdays, the kids classes make food as part of their lesson. The third child made sushi, and the second child baked cookies.


On my walk back home I took a different route. Maybe not the best idea. I walked through a part of town that was mostly very narrow alleys. I didn’t feel very comfortable so I walked quickly through. It’s astonishing how much poverty there is here.


If you look closely at the photo below, you will see circled in black a community of aluminum or tin houses. These houses are literally shacks with no running water, plumbing, and barely coverage from the elements.

It was really quiet walking through this neighborhood.

I fly back this Monday for a couple weeks to get a handle on some of my cases and filing and mail. When I get back we will have a month left. I really want to take my family to the Yucatan peninsula but all the archeological sites are still closed. The hotels are slowly opening back up June 1, so I will be monitoring that. If Chichen Itza opens up in June, we will take the next flight out. I’ll leave that up to God. We are so blessed, if we miss it this time, it won’t be the end of the world. But I sure would love to see it. 🙂

Day 133

So today started off rough. One of our children threw a very huge tantrum that last nearly all morning. Another refused to participate in their class. I had a bunch of zoom meetings and it was obvious from the commotion downstairs that it was going to be a rough day. It was a very rough day.

Late this morning I heard my wife and one of my kids yell out as if they were in fear. And low and behold this was crawling on the couch they were sitting in.

I also noticed a baby scorpion in a spiders web an hour later.


After my meetings finally ended, I tried to help but the kids were already gone. I put a movie on that they hated, but they still watched it. Who doesn’t love The Peanuts Gang? Seriously.

My wife, while I was trying to keep the kids upstairs, made Popeyes chicken from scratch. Complete with red beans and rice, which tasted even better than if we got them from Popeyes. We quickly put the kids to bed early because they were… challenging.


Just as I was about to go to bed, I checked my email and saw that my flights to the states next week were cancelled. I can’t stress enough, how much I need to be in town next week. This made me feel the cortisol running through my veins. Luckily I was able to find flights out and tomorrow morning I will he Ubering to the airport to guarantee I get the refund sent to my atm card. Please pray they don’t cancel the flights I just booked.

Day 131

I fly home in a week. Most of my morning was planning what to take back and what cases I need to work on when I’m home. I also need to do a deep clean of the home and if I have time, I’m considering taking a road trip, where I’m not sure yet. But I miss driving and I’m considering going for a long one.

After school, the kids cleaned up a bit and hung out. My oldest son created a wall of art for him and his siblings to display their works of art. It was beautiful. I’d take a photo of it, but many children are sleeping in that room right now.

I made tuna casserole for dinner. The kids devoured it as usual. They didn’t notice that one of the vegetables I put in was cactus. After dinner we let the kids play in the pool and run wild a bit while Bonnie and I uploaded a weeks worth of homework.

The school my kids go to is great and they have absolutely no idea on how to do distance learning. They run everything through google classroom. They purposely do not give out their email addresses, we have to post a comment somewhere to get any response. They hardly respond to comments anyways. Every day each child has autonomous work they are required to do. After it is complete they have to fill out a homework plan regarding the work they did. The teachers at this school are not complicating anything.

There is no uniformity per class. Each teacher has their own philosophy on what should be assigned and when it should be turned in. It’s a scavenger hunt to find the right link in order to even join a video classroom each morning. Some teachers email it, some do not. Some forget. At the end of the day you would think we can scan and upload a document and just email it. Nope.

The best way to turn in homework is to literally take a photo of it. Then email the photo to your email address. Then log into your child’s google account and open their classroom account. Then find the homework page. Then find the date of the homework. Click on the date for the certain type of document to turn in (lab, homework plan, elective, project). Then click an option to open up a drawing. After you do this, open up your email and download the corresponding photo. Right click the photo and copy it. Then go to the google drawing and copy paste onto the drawing. If there are multiple pages per corresponding document, repeat until all pages are pasted onto the drawing. Make sure the drawing is saved. Then close the window and elect to “deliver” the drawing. You just turned in that one piece of corresponding homework.

Now do that for the other three children. Try not to throw yourself off the roof. Tonight Bonnie showed me every minute detail on how to turn this homework in. Sometimes the teacher doesn’t post the link in order to turn the homework in. Of and the kids are doing this in a foreign language. Pray for our family. Pray my wife is the patience of a monk.

Now I can’t leave this log without telling what happened today during school. It might just be the funniest thing that has ever happened in our household. I won’t name names. Just know this absolutely happened to one of my boys.

During a video class, one of the children ran upstairs during their class. Another child took the computer and opened up a tab on the internet and took the computer into the bathroom to go to the bathroom. Unbeknownst to him, he dropped his pants and showed an entire class his genitals for a period of time. He had no clue what he did.

His mom eventually got the computer form him to ask the teacher how to class went. The teacher was laughing uncontrollably, and when my wife explained to our son what had happened, he was mortified. One day I will name the child that did this. But not for a while.

Day 130

Today for the second day in a row we slept in. We had another big breakfast. Homemade hash browns, bacon, eggs, and French toast. I’ve been wanting to bake some scones lately but we don’t have heavy cream or buttermilk. We do have lemons but the lemons here are as big as large grapes, so I’m not going to be able to make home made buttermilk with that.

We did a lot of laundry and after breakfast we had online church. Today’s sermon was about betrayal and forgiveness, and what better Story in the Bible to display both then the story of Joseph. I tried re-capping the sorry for nighttime bible study and the children obnoxiously said they know the story.

So I took it upon myself to tell them the whole story including Pottifor’s wife, the cell mate who forgot about Joseph etc… Hindsight being 20-20 I probably shouldn’t have been as descriptive about what Pottifor’s wife did to Joseph. 😀

Day 129

Today we slept in. It was amazing. We then made eggs in toast, one of Bonnie’s favorite breakfasts growing up. We had eggs in toast, with avocado and homemade salsa. It was an amazing breakfast. Afterwards the kids watched The Wizard if Oz. The next time Wicked is in SF, we will take the kids to see it, great musical.

We had left overs for lunch, and then filled the pool up in the garage. The kids are going to be in this thing constantly from now until the end of Day 179.

Part of the day I was texting with one of our kids’ teachers. Confirming enrollment and where the kids might be placed next year. It made me really sad. I absolutely loved our children’s teachers at their school back home.

Our children’s first grade teacher seemed to be genetically engineered to be a teacher. The third grade teacher has a passion for teaching that rivals my passion for Star Wars (he is also the nicest human on planet earth). Our children’s fourth grade teacher also seems to be built in a lab to be a teacher as well, and she has a dry sense of humor like my own.

My wife and I are in mourning about switching teachers. But we will probably get over it. Next year we will have all four children at the school. It will be a glorious year for us, but for this pandemic.

I’m flying back in a little over a week to bring items back, and to get a handle on paperwork at my office. I’ll be there close to two weeks. Then I fly back and we have exactly one month until moving back for good. Don’t expect daily blog entries for Days 138-152. I won’t be blogging about my time back home in Alameda, that is boring.